1. Skip the cards written by the corporate card pushers
Write a love note to one other, the original Valentine’s were handwritten love notes;
A suggestion is to write a few words about when you first met, just recall the details of when, where, how and why (you already know who) and your partner will be flattered.
2. Cook a meal together—there is no room for a sous chef
Work together on an equal playing field.
3. Change the light bulb in your bedroom lamp:
RED is bold and sexy; BLUE is fairytale and magical; you will create a dramatic effect and see one other in a different light.
4. Set up a tray (the way they do in hotels)
With finger foods like grapes, berries and don’t forget the dark chocolate; Include some red wine or hot chocolate, depending on your style, and you will be heart smart—no need to load up on cholesterol, which is the enemy of good sex.
5. Fill a vase or even a bud vase with a fresh flower or two
You don’t need a dozen expensive roses, as you can purchase a single exotic flower from a local florist or get more bang for your buck with a beautiful, inexpensive arrangement at your local supermarket or Costco; augment the visual effect with a light spritz of aromatherapy like lavender, citrus or jasmine around the bedroom.
Note: if you opt for the single flower, let your beloved know how this flower symbolizes your relationship. Think fresh as a daisy or sunshine of my life like a sunflower.
6. Play your favorite song(s) as a couple
If none, create an interesting mix, such as Bruno Mars and Barry White—music is a great persuader.
7. Dress for success and aim for the surprise element
There’s nothing better than a good surprise that will keep your partner guessing and building anticipation for the main event; to up the ante, drop hints leading up to Valentine's.
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